Saturday, July 23, 2011

Cyberbullying-movie

Couple of nights ago I saw this movie called cyberbullying. We all know what cyberbullying is because it has gotten alot of media coverage for the last couple of years will all of these suicides going on. That movie ispired me to write this post on cyberbullying. A lot of kids get bullied and that's not right. I know the saying kids will be kids but I grew to hate that saying. It gives kids that excuse to act a fool. When a person harasses you on the internet tell someone. Print the evidence and do not erase it. You also have the option to just block the person. I hope this helps because I don't want a child to feel that there is no place for him/her because of some morons on the computer who doesn't want to tell you these things in person

To the bullies I command you to stop bullying. Don't do it over the computer or in person. It's very selfish. If you don't like a person, don't talk to them. Don't spread rumors about them, call them names, or use any physical altercations. A message to the victims, please do not kill themselve you are stronger than that, Don't pay any attention to the bullies. Tell somebody about them. It'll work out.

 No matter what anyone says we have all been bullied at some point in their lives. I've been bullied alot too. I was never cyberbullyed but trust me it hurts to be bullied in person. Stick your head up high and be of good cheer. Life is a gift. Don't let anyone ruin that for you.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Dress to Impress

I know I said in my last blog that you should dress however you want. If you are being yourself but this is another story. I see girls on the the street dressing up like hoochies and prostitutes. It's ridiculous. Don't those girls realize that people, specifically men are going to land an impression on them. I know that you want to express yourself but don't dress up like a stripper. If you want to show some skin make it tasteful. I actually don't believe in showing any skin but if you are going to do it right. I also see girls complaining about the dress code. The school have a dress code for a reason and that reason is good. They don't want little girls to be parading in booty shorts. You also don't want the wrong impression to give boys. Boys might think you're easy. If you dress like that it gives men an invitation that you want to do more. Also think about the pedophiles out there who would enjoy looking at you with your tight clothes on. If you dress modestly it shows that you have respect for your body.

If you're thinking that boys would like you more if you show alot of skin think again. Boys will only see you as objects. They won't care about your personality. They just want your body. That's the only thing they want. If you want people to respect your body, make sure you dress more modest. It gives the boys to get to know the inside instead of paying attention to the outside. Don't get me wrong, a boy wants a beautiful girl. You still shouldn't dress up like a girl in a rap music video. To rap things up don't dress like you don't care about your own body. Dress like your age and dress modestly. Dress to impress.

First tip: Don't care about the bullies and what anyone else thinks.

Don't care what other people think of you. Be more unique. Teenage girls care to much about what their peers think about them. Especially in this new bully epidemic. If the bully is threatening you, or/and physically attacking you tell someone. If someone is verbally attacking you, you ignore them or stand up for yourself. If the bullying continues tell someone. Your peers may not be accepting as you want them to be but you have to move on. Find a group of friends who will accept you for who you are. When I was in middle school I was bullied alot and I know how it feels but don't let that down. People are different. That's how it suppose to be. If people were born the same then that will be boring as heck. People don't realize that. Listen to the music you want to listen to and dress the way yay you want to dress if it's respectively. Just be your self and you'll be fine. As long as you are not hurting anyone else. Don't let kids at school ruin your confidence. Just take things day by day. Just remember you are a good person and don't let anyone let you down.